Are you one of those people who wait until their check engine light is on to fill up their tank? I have friends and family who scoff at my discomfort at the slightest sign that the gas level has dipped below a fourth of a tank. I immediately pull over at the nearest station to … Continue reading Out Of Gas
Warts and All
With today's climate, the gulf between political views has created a chasm between family members and friends who differ in their leanings. You only have to go on social media to observe the comments (some bordering on nasty) arguing their version of Kool-Aid and blasting anyone who doesn’t fervently agree. I've posted on this topic … Continue reading Warts and All
Celebrate the Ordinary
This was written two years ago. Since my husband's cancer diagnosis, I haven't posted much at all. Mark passed away January 15, 2025--two years from the date of this post, so the timing is bittersweet. But I think there's a message here we can all hold onto.} Celebrating the Ordinary At first glance, 2023 was … Continue reading Celebrate the Ordinary
We Appreciate Your Patience
How many times have you heard this line? "All available operators are busy helping other customers. We will be with you as soon as possible. We appreciate your patience". Patience? Thirty minutes later, I am still hearing a computer-generated female, calmly thanking me for my patience. LADY, I am here to tell you that the … Continue reading We Appreciate Your Patience
Good With Color
Growing up a middle child and the only girl (until I was almost 13 and my darling sister was born) I developed a competitive streak with my two brothers. I felt like I had to try harder, do better and achieve more than they did. To be fair, that was not pushed on to me … Continue reading Good With Color
The Hazard Button
This past week, has been extremely stressful. I struggled under the burden of family illnesses, the declining health of beloved pets and a work week that demanded even more of me than normal. Suffice it to say, I was looking forward to this weekend! Nay! I needed this weekend! However, because I had to leave … Continue reading The Hazard Button
The Monster Under the Bed
Warning: This is a tough topic to read about, especially if you have experienced unresolved sexual abuse in the past. I do not want you to experience any triggers or additional trauma. Angela In January, I started a series focused on the sexual exploitation of children. First I touched on protecting your children from "stranger … Continue reading The Monster Under the Bed
What’s Good for the Team?
As the middle child, I was sandwiched between my older brother (who was 2 years my elder) and my younger brother, also separated by two years. In theory, I wanted to be that lacy-dressed, Mary-Jane wearing Honey Bunch. I did want to be a princess (in my head). But seriously, there was no hope of … Continue reading What’s Good for the Team?
The Hypocrite
Here I am again: this is me...the Pot calling out the Kettle. Last week I wrote about loving yourself; accepting yourself; making time for the things that bring you joy. I write those things because self-care is such an important concept for those in the helping profession. Without it, we crash and burn. We leave … Continue reading The Hypocrite
Dangerous Opportunity
When written in Chinese, the word "crisis" is composed of two characters. One represents danger, and the other represents opportunity. John F. Kennedy. We all face crisis: in our career, in our personal life, in relationships. Crisis can seem debilitating at times. And for some, it is. In the throngs of crisis, we experience those … Continue reading Dangerous Opportunity
Water for Camels 