Late one day, at the end of the week, I stood looking out at the city of Birminham through the windows of my 11th floor office. The view was amazing as darkness descended and thousands of lights gave the appearance of a magical world filled with excitement and promise. For someone. Not me. I, however, only felt the exhaustion of a week of crisis, turmoil and problem solving. In other words, I was spent.
I had been embroiled in so many meetings, case staffing and community projects, I hadn’t even started looking at emails for the day. Opening up my mail folder I winced to see 300 emails waiting for me. With a resolute sigh, I scanned them to see if any were emergent as I would hit those first.. I stopped short when I saw an email from the agency stock clerk with no subject line. I don’t normally get emails from him as he reports to the Assistant Director of Building Operations. I was curious. I liked this worker. He had been with the agency long before I came and was a true asset to us, as well as a very pleasant man. I wondered if there was a supply shortage or some other major issues he felt I should know. The email read:
Merry Christmas, Angela. You are the best director we have ever had.
I froze. The room got warmer, I could feel my eyes water and I smiled. Then I rose from my chair, grabbed my purse and went home.
Social Workers: Do you feel sometimes that you are low man on the totum pole? Do you take little satisfaction in your accomplishments because you think as a small fish in a big pond your contributions don’t matter? Then let’s examine that belief with real life examples and some real talk.
As Director, I will not diminish the complexities, frustrations and stress that comes with running a large agency.
Our vision reflects 6 Ps:
Passion for serving others
Protection for children and vulnerable adults
Provision of resources and services
Practice that reflects our belief that all humans have dignity and worth
Permanency for all children in out of home care
Proficiency at improving and maintaining our skills for progress.
When I reflect on this mission, I realize that the most powerful person in the achievement of these goals is you: the line worker.
You are the one reaching out to those in crisis, listening to their trauma and offering support. You are the ones holding the babies born addicted to drugs as they scream out their pain and anger to the world. You are the ones who provide resources to those who cannot feed their own family. You are the ones who help a family navigate the road to change.
Not me.
You.
When you feel insignificant in your struggle to achieve all that is laid on your shoulders, look in the mirror and tell yourself “I am standing the gap between hope and hopelessness. I am important!”
we are here to support you, provide ongoing training, share of our own experiences and look at Big Picture Strategies. But all the directing in the world will not matter to the mother wanting to recover from addiction to regain her children. You are the only rock she can count on.
And you, Joe, with your little email, can touch a director’s heart and bring insight into her priorities.
When it comes to bringing about real change you are not the least of these my social workers.
You are giants!
It’s amazing how one little sentiment can uplift our spirits and affirm our goals.
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You are so right.
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Warms my heart. Thank you😊
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Thank you Ellie
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That’s beautiful!!! You all are absolute angels. I can’t imagine the drain You go through…..and how in the world You cope with hearing the details of some very dreadful, heartbreaking situations….over and over…and carry them even when there isn’t much You can do. You all have golden hearts. I love that a beautiful, warm breeze came to You with those kind words right when You needed it. An angel for an angel!!!! Thank You all for what You do. Huge Hugs…..Cheers! 🙂
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Your kind words, so full of encouragement. Thank you.
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My pleasure. 🙂
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Woooow! You are giving tons of good energy and support! You glow through your words!
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That is so kind of you. Thanks.
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Reblogged this on Same Train, Different Track.
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Wow. Thanks!
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Sentimental emotions. Just loved it. you write awesome.
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You are kind. Thank you.
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This is such an important message. The acknowledgement that the work we do each day matters, by a co-worker or director, can help revive those who are easily depleted.
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Thank you for your comment. I also believe social work is important and we should make it a priority to pay attention to their need for replenishing
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I have had similar experience with small things cheering me up forever.
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Hello I noticed you lol I have read some of your posts and I really am impressed I actually write about all things but bpd is something I actually have so yeah your words speak a clear language
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I am glad we have connected. I liked your work as well
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I am glad as I have worked hard to try and educate and make aware of bpd and the ongoing therapy and skills I learn as I try and put them into words that are understood without coming across the wrong way
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I write about 20 blogs on average a day so if there is a topic of interest please let me know and I will do my best to nail it for you lol
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hello and good morning or afternoon i have written more blogs and they are maybe a lkittle flat today but its been a challenging day but they are never the less my work just thought i would let you know
addison
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It’s the reality of humanity this indicates that’s you are a human being
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Great comment
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Yes it is
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